Let Talk about Parents

Dealing with parent and parents dealing with adolescence

These are an interesting topic. Being a teenager is really fun but sometimes we don’t enjoy it to the fullest "according to you and me". Having  parents who yell us you all the time. But  you ever  wondered why? The answer is laziness doing nothing all day and all night  it is terrible you should be a shame and these goes for female and male teens. Don't get mad but it is true. You have to help your mom or dad. Basically doing your chores. For example, washing the dishes, pick up your dirty or clean clothes etc. If you go to school and live with Mommy and Daddy don't you think that your parents are right to get mad at you. But if you work, you don't  pay everything that is needed. For example paying bills, furniture, rent, food etc. Be honest with yourself, you only work just for you, to buy your clothes or equipment. I want to add that our parents most of the time doesn't give us permission to go out or to the mall or even joining clubs like a dance club. Because if they see you laying on the sofa watching anime or watching Netflix and eating Cheetos all day. They know right away that you are irresponsible and they don't expect anything good about you. So through your laziness away to the trash. I know it will be hard but not impossible because at the end. You will have your parents eating out of your hands “just kidding”. But you would have a good relationship with you parents. Family it is the most wonderful thing.  

What is bullying? How to get eliminated?

Bullying is a shocking Word. Commonly passed between young children's and adolescent. The truth that is not fun and much less if you're the victim.

But where and why this happens? the answer is very simple. Usually happens in places with poor living conditions. I've seen and I learned the most of the time happens among poor. I don't want to offend anyone but it is the truth. why does this happen? by pure competition. For example, a material thing that you have or even what you wear. Because it is not brand or designer your cloth and the appliance, if is from one year ago or more, because you do not live in a mansion, because you do not use silk blankets or because you did not have the luck of being born in the cradle of gold. Well not precisely. But the problem is everything you use or bring should be branded. and we do not forget the nationality. If you're Mexican or that if you're a person of color among lot others it will exist bullying. Or much worse yet it between same nationalities. Among Mexican against Mexicans and of course among others also.

But what is the real issue?

Because you're this or that. They criticize you, beat you, humiliate you, trample, make you less. But what is more concerned, teen/child who are victims. They can live them traumatized and even think in commit a suicide.

if you wondering if is serious? Yes, very serious because these people do not have heart, mercy of anything or anyone. They exceed the limits to humiliate a defenceless teen or child.

If you are a parent, make sure your child are not passing through Bullying. It likely that your daughter or son does not say anything for some the reasons like shame or worthlessness. However, if you are a teen or a child and you are not asking for any help. You must act do not let anyone beat you by anything and anyone. Those who think they are superior to you. They are disgusting for their demonic attitude. You are worth a lot. Value yourself as a human being because those evil people may not worth even a breadcrumb.

What is the solution?

Report it to the police, ask for help to your parents or someone who is in charge of you. if they ignore you go to the police. Do not go to school, if that is where the events are happening.

another good option is to go move of school or even city. Not all the school are like that or city. exist schools that attend rich and poor student and is definitely a good school and place where they treat you equally.