Scars that Heal

SAY NO TO BULLYING

Lets talk about parents

Let Talk about Parents

Dealing with parent and parents dealing with adolescence

These are an interesting topic. Being a teenager is really fun but sometimes we don’t enjoy it to the fullest "according to you and me". Having  parents who yell us you all the time. But  you ever  wondered why? The answer is laziness doing nothing all day and all night  it is terrible you should be a shame and these goes for female and male teens. Don't get mad but it is true. You have to help your mom or dad. Basically doing your chores. For example, washing the dishes, pick up your dirty or clean clothes etc. If you go to school and live with Mommy and Daddy don't you think that your parents are right to get mad at you. But if you work, you don't  pay everything that is needed. For example paying bills, furniture, rent, food etc. Be honest with yourself, you only work just for you, to buy your clothes or equipment. I want to add that our parents most of the time doesn't give us permission to go out or to the mall or even joining clubs like a dance club. Because if they see you laying on the sofa watching anime or watching Netflix and eating Cheetos all day. They know right away that you are irresponsible and they don't expect anything good about you. So through your laziness away to the trash. I know it will be hard but not impossible because at the end. You will have your parents eating out of your hands “just kidding”. But you would have a good relationship with you parents. Family it is the most wonderful thing.  

What is bullying? How to get eliminated?

Bullying is a shocking Word. Commonly passed between young children's and adolescent. The truth that is not fun and much less if you're the victim.

But where and why this happens? the answer is very simple. Usually happens in places with poor living conditions. I've seen and I learned the most of the time happens among poor. I don't want to offend anyone but it is the truth. why does this happen? by pure competition. For example, a material thing that you have or even what you wear. Because it is not brand or designer your cloth and the appliance, if is from one year ago or more, because you do not live in a mansion, because you do not use silk blankets or because you did not have the luck of being born in the cradle of gold. Well not precisely. But the problem is everything you use or bring should be branded. and we do not forget the nationality. If you're Mexican or that if you're a person of color among lot others it will exist bullying. Or much worse yet it between same nationalities. Among Mexican against Mexicans and of course among others also.

But what is the real issue?

Because you're this or that. They criticize you, beat you, humiliate you, trample, make you less. But what is more concerned, teen/child who are victims. They can live them traumatized and even think in commit a suicide.

if you wondering if is serious? Yes, very serious because these people do not have heart, mercy of anything or anyone. They exceed the limits to humiliate a defenceless teen or child.

If you are a parent, make sure your child are not passing through Bullying. It likely that your daughter or son does not say anything for some the reasons like shame or worthlessness. However, if you are a teen or a child and you are not asking for any help. You must act do not let anyone beat you by anything and anyone. Those who think they are superior to you. They are disgusting for their demonic attitude. You are worth a lot. Value yourself as a human being because those evil people may not worth even a breadcrumb.

What is the solution?

Report it to the police, ask for help to your parents or someone who is in charge of you. if they ignore you go to the police. Do not go to school, if that is where the events are happening.

another good option is to go move of school or even city. Not all the school are like that or city. exist schools that attend rich and poor student and is definitely a good school and place where they treat you equally.  

Drug to the Trash

Addiction can make loose your dignity. It all start with a problem whether you want to forget or relax. I would not lie but it does helps you to forget but just for a while not for longer and that will lead to an addiction. Been an addictive person it will not gonna help you solve your previous problems contrary you will have even worthier problems.  You will forget another thing instead of forgetting you're real problems. You pocket will suffer and you don't want that to happen. You have to open your eyes and find happiness, drugs are not good, it killing you slowly, destroying your life, is taking away your dignity and future too. You have the opportunity to be happy to be a good person to change. All those who judge without even knowing ignored and demonstrate that you can change.

It would not be easy but not impossible. However, I know a solution and it to replace your drug addiction with other addictions. For example, video games, animes, music, sport, movies etc. I know it not a complete solution but one thing I know that it would calm your anxiety or maybe, it would help you to not feel alone. Most of the teenager that don’t have communication with a parent or someone familiar.  They spend their time drawing, reading, watching movies, animes, and other shows, play video games, editing music, video, or photographs and posted in Instagram.

Is not easy to leave drug addiction because you feel comfortable in your own world. But by replacing your drug addiction with addictions like video games, animes, music, sport, movies etc. It actually helps a lot. Because you have fun and feel comfortable too.

Lost in other dimencion

It an unestablished house with no windows no doors, the floor is made of wet mud, there's no lights, no furniture it seems more like an abandoned house. It getting dark already my friend and I we are inside of my house. while my aunt is outside in a chair sitting with her head to one side sleeping deeply. I’m steering my aunt threw the window, wondering hopefully she will not awake.I’m embracing my love on my arms protecting him from the world. This cute child is only a baby. I’m kissing him with an innocent kiss on his little lips. The people from town are against. The only people helping me out are my friends. While my aunt is sleeping, we are escaping like thieves from the back of the window. We in our way to a fancy party far away from home.  I feel like I’m walking alone maybe because my friend doesn't know me, even me I don't know them either not even their faces. I'm in another dimension. I do not quite understand what is going on. But in my mind, I know my mission is to protect my love. I feel a tremendous love for this baby like a love of two beautiful couples, I can feel it in my bones. This another dimension is not like a world with bright colors instead, there are pale color and brownish colors. It seems like a world where there are no emotions. As if not existed a tomorrow.We are about to reach this luxurious property which is organizing a party. First, at the front, are checking our invitations. We are standing in straight line waiting for our turn. My hand is sweating. While I’m watching this two gray walls, that covers the whole terrain. I show my invitation to the talk host. He  is wearing a black fancy uniform and a bow tie. while he is checking my invitación, I am covering my little  love face with a black sweater. What a beautiful light brown mane that controls my nerves. He hunkers down to ask me with a smile  "What do you get there"  I did not answer his question. He is stroking the baby's hair that I’m embracing.  He winks at me as if he is telling me with his glance that everything is fine I felt relief. Finally, I could breathe to the rhythm of my heartbeat.I don't know how many hour had the past and where my love and my friends went. Since the party, they leave me alone. I enter in a house with two rooms only, with an open door in between the two rooms. I’m looking around and there's no clue of my love. I just found  trash, shoes, cloth, furniture in bad conditions, empty bottles of beer, and people sitting on the floor asking for money.I never found them again.I’m lost, standing outside of nowhere, looking for something that would help me get back home. I guy is coming towards me, his face does not appear familiar to me. I don't know him. I’m confused, why he is screaming at me? I haven't done anything bad to him, not that I remember. I’m  shocked,  I could not hear a word of his mouth, that is moving in front of my face.  He doesn't leave me any choice and I’m running from him.Far away I can see a giant wave of water coming toward us, along with dark fish or boat. I can not see it very well.  It did not give me time to panic, both of us hold a wood with that even thinks about it,  to avoid being dragged by the giant waves. Inside of the surface along with pieces of wood. He is acting in a weird manner; dancing in the water like if he is happy of been drawn. while I’m thinking about my mom, I can see the shadows of blue sky, reflecting over the water. How much time can I still resist without breathing down here? I thought. I can not feel any emotions. It a ship or a submarine, I don't really know because of the bright lights that are shining as the doors open on the machine or submarine I don't really know what it is. This machine is down here, down the surface with us, at a distance. We do not though it two times and we enter. Wow, this room with white walls this place is full of beautiful furniture and guests too. I can also hear the guy who screams at me previously, is complaining about a man. The man is showing a small a device like an a tile transport to him. But I’m not sure. I  never saw everything like it. The device is reflecting images of the house on the air. The guy who screams at me said: “ yeah, we live here in this houses, this place is Earth”. I’m receiving a text message from my mom on my cellphone. My mom writes where at you at? are you coming home? “I’m scared” I’m just keep watching my mom’s  messages and pictures on my cell phone. Many questions are passing thru my head. How far are we at from Earth? what is this place? how I going to go back home?. My goal is to keep you entertained by reading etc. Say no to drugs. Comment down below if you liked this brief story and follow me I will be thankful.

New Addiction

     

Animes: Heidi(anime), Candy, Perrine story(anime), Sandy Bell, Anne of green gables,  Nana (anime), and Naruto Uzumaki  I recommend to watch these anime they are really good, in these will keep you occupied from drugs or any drug addiction that might have. It also has a good motto, that makes you realize about life. Some of you might thing that is only cartoons but is not I promise. Games: Minecraft, Rust Game, Pixel painter, Five Nights of Freddy's (scary), Minecraft Hunger Games, Beyond to souls, and Yandere Simulator (scary). Those are some games that you can play some os they are very interesting, to keep you busy from consuming drugs. I hope you like this game, some of the of scary games. 

Book: Ami the child of the stars, this book is so beautiful is a fiction book, is an Alien. those who "want to believe".  Also, will keep you busy and away from drugs. 

I hope will you like it, on my last post http://ibelieveinhumans.blogspot.com/2016/02/drug-addiction.html I talk about drug addiction and how can you keep away from drugs. I didn't post music. but if you want some recommendations or if you like to leave me a comment and I will be glad to share it.  

Problems with your supervisor or parent their not let you do what you want.

Sometimes we feel like no one understand us, more when we are teenage and there's a lot of things to do. However, sometimes our parent overprotected us. Sometimes  as a teenager we just one to be free but one thing I know if your parent doesn't tell us a @#45 means that  doesn’t love us and doesn't even care about you.

as human beings, we are never satisfied with anything.

Most of the teens don't have an idea how your decisions affect to other people. I know that sometimes you just want to have fun but you never know what could happen, in this world exist many people that are not kind/good. For example, if they invite you to a party, you never know if they going to invite/give alcohol or drugs. That why you have to be smart in your decisions.

That why sometimes you are not responsible at home or at school, how do you expect that you parent to give you permission. Sometimes your parent is so naive because as a teenage sometimes we take advantages of that and I assured  that it is a very dumb decision.

You need to help your mom, sister, or whoever who is in charge of you.  Throw your laziness away. Don't wait to your supervisor do your responsibilities for you and you just wait for their like a king/queen sitting on the couch eating Cheetos. Sometimes that the reason that your supervisor treats you badly. That why you feel like the whole word is against you. You have to see what is your error or what thing are you doing wrong. A good solution is to ask what are you doing wrong. I will guess most of the time is for your laziness or because you go over the limits, of your behavior and it will always  exist a reason why they treat you like they treat you.  Be happy because always will exist someone who worries about you even if you refuse to accept it. You have to stop worry about you only. In our generation is the craziest I can understand how terrible a parent feel to see a daughter or a son acting like a #@$$#. You have to think what are you going to do when you have to take responsibility for yourself. It will be a disaster and you will how  your mind blows up.

Bye, to Drug addiction

EXCUSES TO KEEP CONSUMING

I will not take my time explaining what effects can cause drug addiction. You probably already know, how drugs can destroy you. Now the question is Why is necessary for your to consume these drug?  If one of your excuses are it helps me forget, it feels good, it helps me relax, because everyone is doing it because it makes forget my problems “I'M ALREADY ADDICTED” etc. Now ask yourself by consuming. It has solved any of your problems. I will guess again probably your answer will be “yes”. I'm sorry to tell but is an excuse wherever you're said and even if you're  found a good reason. I now that is very difficult to leave something that makes your feel better or relief or it makes you look cool.

 HOW TO STOP CONSUMING?

 Replace your addiction. Here's some example by watching animes, making Music, play video games, dance your favorite music, play an instrument, draw, write comics etc. Something that you're really like. I know that your cannot change who you are. It not easy to leave something that your like or you're addicted to it. That why I recommend replacing your addiction. if you're trying what I just recommend. The only thing that I can say is that these are a whole new world, of learning, to be interested, to get fun. There's a lot of things that you have missed all these time. You will realize that all of these worlds of drug addiction is a waste of time.  

WARNING!

Those people who you consider friends are not real. You probably know that everybody lies, even you. I will just call them bad friends. A real friend is that one that helps you with your problems, A bad friend is when is encouraging to consume, having the bad friend your will have double problems or even triple etc. It actually very hard to find real friends. Never trust in In bad friend because they can say a lot of things about you, you never know because each people's minds it a whole world. You never know what they up to. Never trust, like I previously said entering in this drug addiction is another world of problems in your house, in your body, in your mind, people that love you, people that you love, etc.

How can your help yourself

Be conscious of this fact, Everybody has done an error, nobody is perfect in this world. Since the time pass and pass your will need more drug to calm your anxiety and also you are more likely to commit more errors that can later your will want to erase, more problems that will cause, and also not let you see. If you lost, you can lose your dignity. Probably your are here because you're already have done something wrong. But sorry your can not fix your errors because it was your choose to keep consuming. Don't blame people of your errors. Because it was your choice to consume, no one put your a gun and force you to do it.

tell your situation to your mom, dad, siblings, and real friends. Sometimes by just talking to these people that I just mention, they will know right away, that you're trying to change. Is not necessary to tell them I am addicted to drugs because they're probably now that you are consuming this #$@#$. But your can talk about another topic. For example, about video games, animes, music, etc.  

  However, if you mom and dad, sister, or real friend etc. don't care about yours. There's no choice if you don't help yourself no one else would do it. Maybe because of many things that you have done or they have past. Yours have to stop and be realistic. You have to think, what you're going to leave off, your can not always depend on someone. It's your future, what are you going to tell your children in the future, what are your going to do when you're old.

 How to stop being weak

You should be ashamed of everything that you have done with your life and also by taking bad decisions. Other people had worse problems than you. People that you have to admire, or those who had Cancer, and people who had to decide to be strong to accept this disease. People that don't have a leg, a hand that always trying to be independent. People who were a victim of war, that they still trying to forget, the suffer that carry for the rest of their life, and for trying to have an ordinary life to continue to live with the ones that she/he loves. Those people who had to wake to go to work to maintain their mom, dad, sister, and to alway put an effort even do they receive a mercy bill payment.

no one said it was easy. You should be a shame for being weak against these people who had worse problems than you. These worse problems it also happened to teens.

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